There are select swingers who are also involved in the cuckolding lifestyle. Swinging makes it easier and safer to find a stud or bull to engage in hot sex with the femdom presiding over the cuckolding relationship. There are swingers clubs, swinging personals and swingers dating which offer a myriad of opportunities for kinky cuckold sex play. In the UK, there is one premier resource to visit for Swinging Resources and Contacts – Melanies-UK-Swingers.co.uk. Melanie (aka Mel) is a virtual celebrity in the swinging scene in Britain and is a swinger herself.
One important point about swinging is that this kink is not for singles looking for other singles. Couples exclusively engage in swinging to provide variety and spice to their relationship. In a lot of cases, the woman drives the swinging pursuits. This is verified on Mel’s site where there is an abundance of swinging profiles featuring wives looking for husband swaps or swinging. And hubbies either like to watch their shared wife as voyeurs or hubbies are having sex with someone else’s wife in a wife swap.
Several important criteria separate swinging from cuckolding. First, a cuckold is humiliated and aroused when his wife is being sexually ravished by a superior well-hung male. Second, a cuckold feels submissive and inferior to the male swinger sexing up his spouse. Third, a Cuckoldress will forbid her cuckold from participating in any swinging sex, unless you consider cleaning out creampie to be a form of sex. And the final criterion, all swingers who are cuckolds enjoy voyeurism.
Here at Cuckoldress, I will launch another theory about how prevalent cuckolding is within male sexual behavior. My theory is that all virtual sex with women on the internet is cuckolding. Why? Because while you are having cam or phone sex with these virtual vixens, in their real lives they are having sex with other men. You will not experience these women in the flesh, only fantasy. You can and will fantasize about the women on WickedWebcamSites.com, fantasize about them being your girlfriend or wife, even though they are having sex with other men. In fact, you will get excited that these cockteases are fucking other men. Webcam wenches vicariously reject you in cuckold fashion.
However, don’t despair, because virtual cuckolding serves a biological and sexual purpose! The purpose is to keep you hornier than ever. Studies have shown that you cuckolds produce more sperm in an attempt to compete with rival males, sperm that is rejected. However, the benefit to cucks is that you experience stronger orgasms due to having more sperm, so the cuckolding masturbation and excitation cycle continues. And virtual cuckolding serves a financial domination purpose, these cam and phone seductresses want to keep you so horny that you keep coming back to pay for more virtual sex.
Here is a Wicked Cam Girl from Chaturbate who features free phone sex chat in addition to cam shows. She also likes to dress in costumes for hot cosplay scenarios such as playing a flight attendant who teases her first class passengers. Role playing is another way to experience virtual cuckolding.
Recently on Reddit, a husband posted a personal predicament concerning his wife who is a webcam model. His predicament was that his wife wanted to start doing cuckold cam shows. His wife claimed these types of livesex shows are earning cam girls on free chat sites like FreeFunCam.com a lot of tokens. He thought he would play the stud and fuck his wife on webcam while some helpless wimp sat in the corner playing the cuckolded husband. Was he wrong! The wife wanted to cuckold her husband and have a black bull or other well-hung stud fuck her on cam while he suffered in the corner of the bedroom. How truly embarrassing to find out your wife thinks you are sexually inadequate! Plenty of Redditors were willing to offer up advice to this hapless hubby. However, plenty of Redditors wanted to know his wife’s webcam name and what site she broadcasts on. Now that was cuckolding unto itself.
Have you ever been cuckolded on webcam by a cam girl? It’s a hot fantasy to indulge with a cam babe playing your cheating wife or girlfriend who will tease you and tell you all about her sexual exploits with other men while you wank. Fantasy masturbation is perfect when you are streaming cam to cam. When you go C2C, the cam Cuckoldress can humiliate you for having a small cock during a small penis humiliation cam show. The cuckolding experiences are endless when you ask a cam girl if she will cuck you.
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In pop culture and social media, the word cuckold and cuck are being overused as insults to describe a weaker or lesser male, a beta male. Cuckold and its abbreviated form cuck aren’t being held true to the original definition and context perpetuated across many centuries. Perhaps there is a reason why our culture is categorizing beta males as cucks. One theory about this phenomenon maintains that a cuckold or cuck is such a weak male, he would not challenge another man having sex with his wife or girlfriend. Another theory is that men emasculate one another in an attempt to trump other men and order themselves within a virtual hierarchy. After all, the put-down “fuckboy” had nothing to do with fucking.
The word cuck and cuckold are being seen and used by millions. This may lead to a greater knowledge, pursuit and acceptance of the lifestyle. The negative risk is oversaturation. FYI: And speaking of cuck, the Cuckoldress hasn’t even delved into the political term cuckservative yet!
In the ebook Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife, a submissive bride begins to explore her sexuality and take lovers outside her marriage. The couple is traveling in the south of France and decide to spend time in a post card perfect city. The locale adds to the ambience of the novel. The wife is extremely sexy and alluring. The husband notices that French men are attracted to her. He encourages his wife to indulge desires she hasn’t so far expressed in taking other men to bed as a shared wife. She is a submissive hotwife versus a classic cuckoldress, nevertheless her husband deals with his feelings of jealousy as he watches his stunning wife having sex with other men.
In a previous article here on Cuckoldress.com, the sexual benefits of swinging vs. cuckolding were discussed by a swinging couple. However, in this book, there is a different dynamic. The dynamic is that of a shared wife where the husband has given permission to her to take other lovers, and who then enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching her with other men. In turn, she begins to enjoy the exhibitionism of being with other men sexually to please and arouse her husband. Her husband is not a traditional cuckold, since he isn’t dealing with the classic cuckold humiliation, instead he is infused with even more desire for her. Sexual competition increases the male libido. And while any husband who is setting his wife free of marital bonds will have to deal with jealousies, their marriage becomes more erotically charged. Remember that our largest sexual organ is our brain and that we can experience heightened arousal from visual stimulation such as exhibitionism. The Cuckoldress highly recommends this classy erotica, Sheer Control by Zara Lynne as well as other eBooks in the same series!
