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Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife

In the ebook Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife, a submissive wife begins to explore her sexuality and taking lovers outside her marriage relationship. The couple is traveling in the south of France, and staying in a post card picture perfect city. The locale adds to the ambience of the novel. The wife is extremely sexy. The husband notices that French men are attracted to her. He encourages her to explore desires she hasn’t so far expressed, in taking other men to bed as a shared wife. She is a submissive wife versus a classic cuckoldress, but her husband must still deal with his feelings of jealousy as he watches his stunning wife having sex with other men.

In the previous article here on Cuckoldress, the sexual benefits of swinging vs. cuckolding were discussed by a swinging couple, but in this book, there is a different dynamic. The sexual dynamic is that of a shared wife, where the husband has given permission to a submissive wife to take other lovers, and who then enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching her with other men. And, in turn, she begins to enjoy the exhibitionism of being with other men sexually to please and arouse her husband. Her husband is not so much as a cuckold, since he isn’t dealing with the classic cuckold humiliation, but instead is infused with even more desire for her. And while any husband setting his wife free sexually, meaning as a shared wife, will have to deal with some jealousies, their marriage becomes more sexually charged. Remember that our largest sexual organ is our brain, and that we can experience heightened arousal, more so than from just sex, from experiencing visual stimulation such as exhibitionism. The Cuckoldress highly recommends this classy erotica, Sheer Control by Zara Lynne as well as her other ebooks in the same series!

Sheer Control Zara Lynne

Cuckoldress Fail

Cuckold vs. Cuckoldress

There was an intriguing article on Salon.com recently about a cuckold relationship in which the girlfriend felt that she had been used to satisfy her ex-boyfriend’s cuckold fetish. While the idea of being a Cuckoldress and living the lifestyle appealed to her and while she craved having the power, she ended up feeling trapped in the cuckold relationship instead. In her confessional story, this woman felt she had been manipulated by her ex-boyfriend. She divulged that she felt post-relationship remorse over how her ex-boyfriend had put his selfish sexual needs ahead of hers. He topped her from the bottom, as beta males or submissives or cuckolds are sometimes known to do in order to try to get what they want. I doubt she will ever get involved with a cucky again. Was this a Cuckoldress fail? Not essentially. The sexual freedom to pursue lusty liaisons with well-hung men or Alpha males while being in a relationship with a cuck simply did not appeal to her.

Cuckold Fetish

Many men do not start out in their sex life as a cuckold. Somewhere along the way, cucks develop these sexual tendencies and then their full-blown fetish follows. Just like any fetish introduced into a relationship, it may not be a “shared” fetish. A cuck cannot expect that his spouse, his girlfriend or any woman he meets will share this fetish with him. Becoming a Cuckoldress usually roots in dominance or desire for sexual freedom and power. While I often discuss with men who call for cuckold phone sex, how to get their wives or girlfriends interested in cuckolding them, there are obviously women who will not want to pursue this whatsoever. There are many reasons why women may not want to pursue cuckolding their mate. Women may be sexually conservative, feel insecure about their looks, consider cuckolding to be cheating, feel no need to sleep with other men, feel that fantasizing or role playing is enough of a satisfying sexual expression, etc. But there are some women who can be persuaded to go further into cuckoldry. I don’t want to divulge my secrets here on how to turn your wife or girlfriend into a Cuckoldress. But one hint is that you have to let her think it’s her idea, not yours. Call me live on Niteflirt for more.

Financial Domination is Cuckolding

Recently, an intriguing article in the New York Observer focused on the fascination with one of the most misunderstood fetishes on the planet, financial domination. Most mainstream media articles shock and mislead readers about findom. Some articles tout the pursuit as bossy, talentless girls looking for easy money. Other articles position greedy financial dominatrices plying their trade by swindling, blackmailing, extorting, etc. Finally, the Observer article titled “Hardcore Money Managers” got it right in an explicit sense. However, what was implicit in the article is that financial domination is a form of cuckolding. Below is a quote from the article where a finsub explains the evolutionary relationship dynamic between Money Domme and money slave:

Findom Cuckolding

The relationship of finsub to Financial Domme is essentially cuckold to Cuckoldress. A finsub is a cuckold who recognizes that a Financial Domme is an Alpha Female Cuckoldress. A Cuckoldress finesses beta males to bestow her with cash and gifts. This behavior is what beta males have done in deference to an Alpha Female throughout evolution. The Findom Cuckoldress uses the gifts (examples: clothing, jewelry, heels, vacations) purchased by finsubs to attract or excite her Alpha Male lovers. She can spend the cash to feather her nest or to lure Alpha Males to her bed. All the elements of cuckolding are in play. The Alpha Female reinforces her Alpha Cuckoldress status while enforcing the role of the beta males as cuckolds. Cuckolds are expressly not for mating, they are expected to be providers and to improve the quality of life of superior females. It’s all based on tenets of evolutionary biology. The strongest and most desirable females focus on mating with the strongest and most desirable males. When cuckolds perform their duties, they support the perpetuation of the species at a primal level.

Read the New York Observer financial domination article here

Cuckolding vs Cheating

cuckoldingThe Cuckoldress has a few older admirers who confessed they divorced their first wives or left girlfriends back in the 80’s and 90’s because they thought what their wives or ex-girlfriends were doing was considered cheating. On retrospect, after a few years had passed, these men who thought they’d been cheated on began to get excited about the cheating relationships they’d been in. They realized their excitement was rooted in humiliation. They’d been sexually rejected, they were inadequate in bed, so their spouse or girlfriend sought hotter sex from other men. Some of the cheating was interracial sex, some wasn’t. But one thing these men realized was that cheating was no longer cheating, it was cuckolding.

That these men were not in control of their wives’ or girlfriends’ sex lives excited them, that the women were Cuckoldresses who held the sexual power in the relationship, was intoxicating to them. The action of cheating somehow mutated into the fetish of cuckolding. These “cheated on” cuckolds advised The Cuckoldress that cheating may have mutated into cuckolding because cuckolding had become popularized on the internet. Can the internet be blamed? Not really. Cuckolding has been around for centuries, since the beginning of human sexual relationships. Women might have pursued mating with who they perceived to be more of an Alpha male than their current mate, without intention of leaving their mate. Cuckolding is and always will be a biological imperative.

What has changed about cuckolding over the centuries? Historically, cuckolding was more of a male sexual power play and humiliation by the dominant male over the cuckolded male. Now, cuckolding is perceived to be a female-centric sexual option. And the male cuckold, while humiliated and powerless, is sexually turned on by his hot wife or girlfriend cuckolding him. Cuckolding has been completely fetishized and is a very firm sexual statement vs. the former subjective perception of cheating.

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