Recently, an intriguing article in the New York Observer focused on the fascination with one of the most misunderstood fetishes on the planet, financial domination. Most mainstream media articles shock and mislead readers about findom. Some articles tout the pursuit as bossy, talentless girls looking for easy money. Other articles position greedy financial dominatrices as plying their trade by swindling, blackmailing, extorting, etc. Finally, the Observer article titled “Hardcore Money Managers” got it right in an explicit sense. However, what was implicit in the article is that financial domination is a form of cuckolding. Below is a quote from the article where a finsub explains the evolutionary relationship dynamic between Money Domme and money slave:
The relationship of finsub to Financial Domme is essentially cuckold to Cuckoldress. A finsub is a cuckold who recognizes that a Financial Domme is an Alpha Female Cuckoldress. A Cuckoldress finesses beta males to bestow her with cash and gifts. This behavior is what beta males have done in deference to an Alpha Female throughout evolution. The Findom Cuckoldress uses the gifts (examples: clothing, jewelry, heels, vacations) purchased by finsubs to attract or excite her Alpha Male lovers. She can spend the cash to feather her nest to lure Alpha Males to her bed. All the elements of cuckolding are in play. The Alpha Female reinforces her Alpha Cuckoldress status while enforcing the role of the beta males as cuckolds. Cuckolds are expressly not for mating, they are expected to be providers and to improve the quality of life of superior females. It’s all based on tenets of evolutionary biology. The strongest and most desirable females focus on mating with the strongest and most desirable males. When cuckolds perform their duties, they support the perpetuation of the species at a primal level.
Read the New York Observer financial domination article here
There was an intriguing article on Salon.com recently about a cuckold relationship in which the girlfriend felt that she had been used to satisfy her ex-boyfriend’s cuckold fetish. While the idea of being a Cuckoldress and living the lifestyle appealed to her and while she craved having the power, she ended up feeling trapped in the cuckold relationship instead. In her confessional story, this woman felt she had been manipulated by her ex-boyfriend. She divulged that she felt post-relationship remorse over how her ex-boyfriend had put his selfish sexual needs ahead of hers. He topped her from the bottom, as beta males or submissives or cuckolds are sometimes known to do in order to try to get what they want. I doubt she will ever get involved with a cucky again. Was this a Cuckoldress fail? Not essentially. The sexual freedom to pursue lusty liaisons with well-hung men or Alpha males while being in a relationship with a cuck simply did not appeal to her.
Many men do not start out in their sex life as a cuckold. Somewhere along the way, cucks develop these sexual tendencies and then their full-blown fetish follows. Just like any fetish introduced into a relationship, it may not be a “shared” fetish. A cuck cannot expect that his spouse or his girlfriend or any woman he meets will share this fetish with him. Becoming a Cuckoldress usually roots in dominance or desire for sexual freedom and power. While I often discuss with men who call for cuckold phone sex, how to get their wives or girlfriends interested in cuckolding them, there are obviously women who will not want to pursue this whatsoever. There are many reasons why women may not want to pursue cuckolding their mate. They may be sexually conservative, don’t feel sexually confident, consider cuckolding to be cheating, feel no need to sleep with other men, feel that fantasizing about cuckoldry or role playing is enough of a satisfying sexual expression, etc. But there are some women who can be persuaded to go further into cuckoldry. I don’t want to divulge my secrets here on how to turn your wife or girlfriend into a Cuckoldress. But one hint is that you have to let her think it’s her idea, not yours. Call me live on Niteflirt for more.
peewee cuckold writes about how a UK Size Queen craves big black cocks and massive black dildos …
My fiancée had a long chat with me about her best friend last weekend. She admitted that her friend likes big cocks and told me a quick story about a white boy who had tried to make love to her friend. He had a small dick and was told to stop after less than a minute because “she couldn’t even feel him”! I used the term Size Queen to describe her and my fiancée agreed, explaining that her friend has become that way, and now the first thing she mentions when recounting a new date is the size of the new man’s penis. When I acted saddened and suggested that perhaps my fiancée felt and acted in the same way, she reacted sympathetically by reassuring me that she is not like that (hmmmm???? I was not convinced). She then added that she might have become that way if she’d stayed single for long enough and had hung out with her Size Queen girlfriend more often. She explained that she and her friend had bought dildos together when they were both single. She went for an average size, but her friend chose a massive lifelike one (I resisted the urge to ask the colour!). My fiancée feels that her friend has ruined herself for normal men by over using the massive dildo. Out of curiosity, I asked my girl how big the one she bought was, and she opened her hands and said “about that big, not too much bigger than yours”. I shriveled inside, as I recalled her earlier description of her dildo size as “average”.
Following immediately on from that, and whilst still on the same topic, she described her friend as more promiscuous since they have gone their separate ways because of me. He friend now goes out with other girls and is more intent on ‘pulling’. My fiancée described how the only time that either she or her friend had ‘pulled’ when out together was when she came out of the toilets to see her friend against a wall being passionately kissed by a big black man. Apparently, they had been talking to two Canadian boxers in a club, and my girl says she spent about a minute just staring as her friend was kissed and mauled by one of these studs. My fiancée says she recalls seeing his pink tongue in her mouth.
I asked whether, if my girl had been supportive of the situation, perhaps encouraging her friend to leave shortly thereafter, her friend might have had a really good night with this man. My girl responded by stating “It’s true that she does like black men.” I couldn’t resist submissively linking the two conversations. I put all recognition of inadequacy and humiliation aside, and in a statement that would have made you proud Empress Sara, I said to my fiancée; “I think your friend should find herself a big black man. If she likes black men. I mean. let’s face it, at least she’d get the big cock that she needs that way.” My fiancée responded: “Yeah, she would. That’s true.”
I decided not to push it any more. But in one conversation she’d admitted/reiterated that her friend is a Size Queen, she thinks my dickie is smaller than average and that she’s very much aware that black men have bigger cocks. Which makes me think she may well harbour real desires to go black. And I promise Empress, if she does cuckold me, just as you have been doing for years, I will accept and support that.
Dear Sara – I’m not sure if I ran into a lesbian cuckoldress situation, but I know I got cucked. I thought I was going to be doing a threesome with these two hot chicks I met at a party. We went back to the one chick’s apartment. We were peeling our clothes off. The chicks started to 69 each other right in front of me. I tried to join in at that point and they told me to wait and watch. I thought ok, I’ll just stroke and watch. It’s not every night that you get to see two hot chicks licking each other live, instead of watching a lesbian sex video clip on xhamster.
But then I tried to join in again and this time they told me to go sit in the corner and watch. There was a chair in the corner of this chick’s bedroom, some dirty clothes of hers were laying on it. I sat down and took a pair of her panties that were on the chair and began stroking with those. The chicks were cumming and I was trying not to cum cos I knew any second they’d need my hard cock. Then the chick who lived in the apartment got up, opened a drawer in her dresser and took out some vibrators. They went back to their 69 and the vibrators sounded like a swarm of bees in the room. I was slowing down my stroke, hoping they’d need me any second.
OK I’m not a bad looking guy, I work out so my body looks good, my dick is 7″ with a nice cut head on it. Why didn’t they want me now? So I went over to them again and the one chick said, I told you to sit in the corner! Damn, that chick was denying me. I went back and sat down and stroked. The girls had so many orgasms I lost count. I finally was in that frenzy of stroking that I knew I had to blow a load, nothing could stop me, I was too far along and so then I just blew it in her panties. I don’t even know if they noticed I struck white oil and cum gushed into the chick’s panties, they were too locked up in that 69.
After they were drunk on orgasms, they just laid on the bed and kissed each other and were saying how good each other’s pussies tasted. Then they looked up and one chick said, you’re still here? I felt like such a cuck! Had I been totally cuckolded by lesbians or bisexual chicks from the get-go? If I was black and had 10″ would they have cucked me? Was it because I was just some white guy with a 7″ dick, nothing spectacular? Was it because I didn’t step up my game and say: don’t tell me to go sit in the corner, I have the cock you need, put those vibrators away? Maybe they thought I was too submissive, too into jerking off? Was the one chick a cuckoldress?
I’ll never know. I got dressed and left. Ha, at least my friends thought I did the two hottest chicks at the party, so I pretended I did and that I was such a stud. Until one of chicks posted on my Facebook: Jerk Off Loser! Panty Faggot Pussyboy Stroker! I hadn’t logged in for a few days and a few of my friends saw it on my wall. So I was busted. Do you think they were lesbians Cuckoldress and they wanted to humiliate me? Please help me. I need to figure this out.
I have to confess something about one of my neighbors. We live in a very upscale neighborhood of executive homes where most of the homes border a private golf course. You know the big McMansions with well manicured lawns, swimming pools, SUVs or luxury cars in the driveways. Well, a few of my other neighbors and my wife and I thought one of our neighbors, the X’s (don’t want to reveal their last name) were into drugs. Why? We kept seeing 3 nights a week (at least), the same black guy stop over and leave after about an hour, maybe less. We thought he was a drug dealer and our neighbors were buying drugs from him. Talk about racial profiling. We were guilty! But, our neighbors didn’t seem like the type to do drugs. The wife is smoking hot, blond, big fake boobs, sexy as hell, and owns a business where she imports hair extensions from China and makes a mint. The husband was an executive a large corporation, kind of overweight and wimpy and lost his job in the economic downturn. But the wife’s business was going like gangbusters, so they weren’t in any danger of losing their home. Finally, one of the nosiest of our neighbors asked the blond hot wife what the deal was with their black “friend” and the blond hot wife laughed and revealed he was her black bull lover! So she was a cuckoldress and her wimpy out of work hubby was a cuckold! Then the word got out that this was a blacks on blonds cuckold sex relationship. We all felt guilty for thinking the black guy was a drug dealer and not a well hung black bull taking care of the sex needs of the blond cuckoldress!
Evidence that one of my blog reader’s girlfriends is a Cuckoldress!
I am very suspicious that my beautiful GF is cuckolding me and that she has become my girlfriend Cuckoldress. At first I was thinking I should just break up with her and move on, but then the more I thought about how she was psychologically and verbally cuckolding me, the more it aroused me. Here are some of my suspicions that she might be cuckolding me, without 100% intending to turn me into a cuckold, but now I feel like I am a cuckold regardless!
A loyal reader of your Cuckold Blog
1) She went for a tanning session at a nearby salon. When she returned she took great delight in telling me about the girl who works at the salon, and that the girl was telling her about how she was going over to see her boyfriend who is from Nigeria. Apparently, he was over here for 6 months, and she loves him now and is going to Africa in the summer to be with him. My girlfriend then said she’d told her to be careful as she’d heard stories of pretty white girls being kidnapped and enforced prostitution and that this girl seemed so sweet and innocent. When I began to say she didn’t seem so innocent, my girlfriend finished my sentence with “… not that innocent if she’s taking big black cock! And she won’t be the same when she gets back from Nigeria!” My Cuckoldress girlfriend found it wonderfully amusing about how this sweet little salon girl was about to be changed forever by her blackings in Africa!
2) We were watching Snoop Dogg’s ‘Puff Puff Pass’ youtube web tv show and Snoop was talking about how when Reggie Bush was engaged to Kim Kardashian, they took a trip to Africa together. Snoop commented that Kim seemed to be mesmerized by the big black African cocks and couldn’t take her eyes off them, as evidenced in a video of their trip. Coincidentally, after they got back from Africa, Kim broke off her relationship with Reggie. Reggie blamed it on Kim cheating, Kim blamed it on their opposing schedules. My girlfriend remarked that Kim probably wanted an even bigger cock than Reggie Bush, “like y’know a huge uncut African cock.”
3) When we awoke the other morning, my girlfriend Cuckoldress recounted a dream she’d just had. She explained “I dreamt that I had been with a black man and that I got pregnant. I remember not knowing whether to tell you in case when the baby came it was black!” I kissed her and asked if she had something she wanted to confess. She laughed and replied “I haven’t been with any black men – haha!” Secretly, I thought to myself “not yet” – and imagined just how powerful her lust for black cock must be to feel obliged to share a dream such as that with her own white boyfriend! I hope my girlfriend Cuckoldress takes me deeper into being her cuckold.
In the ebook Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife, a submissive wife begins to explore her sexuality and taking lovers outside her marriage relationship. The couple is traveling in the south of France, and staying in a post card picture perfect city. The locale adds to the ambience of the novel. The wife is extremely sexy. The husband notices that French men are attracted to her. He encourages her to explore desires she hasn’t so far expressed, in taking other men to bed as a shared wife. She is a submissive wife versus a classic cuckoldress, but her husband must still deal with his feelings of jealousy as he watches his stunning wife having sex with other men.
In the previous article here on Cuckoldress, the sexual benefits of swinging vs. cuckolding were discussed by a swinging couple, but in this book, there is a different dynamic. The sexual dynamic is that of a shared wife, where the husband has given permission to a submissive wife to take other lovers, and who then enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching her with other men. And, in turn, she begins to enjoy the exhibitionism of being with other men sexually to please and arouse her husband. Her husband is not so much as a cuckold, since he isn’t dealing with the classic cuckold humiliation, but instead is infused with even more desire for her. And while any husband setting his wife free sexually, meaning as a shared wife, will have to deal with some jealousies, their marriage becomes more sexually charged. Remember that our largest sexual organ is our brain, and that we can experience heightened arousal, more so than from just sex, from experiencing visual stimulation such as exhibitionism. The Cuckoldress highly recommends this classy erotica, Sheer Control by Zara Lynne as well as her other ebooks in the same series!
Is Alex Reid, Cuckoldress Katie Price’s (a/k/a/ Jordan’s) soon to be ex-hubby, not only a sissy, but also a cuckold? It would appear that he is desperately trying to make his cruel Cuckoldress wife jealous, by dating the ex-girlfriend of my favorite UK black stud Jermain Defoe, Chantelle Houghton. Chantelle had previously been very much in lust with Mr. Defoe, and must have got very accustomed to his big black cock. So has little “Alexis” been nudged out of Katie’s cuckold frying pan, straight into Chantelle’s interracial cuckold humiliation fire? It would certainly seem so, based on the latest photo of him with Chantelle. Check out her jungle print top – a telltale sign of black lust. But more tellingly, check out the humiliating outfit in which the Cuckoldress Chantelle has dressed her emasculated whiteboi!
Holiday souvenir: Alex Reid and Chantelle Houghton brought a little Disney World back with them after a trip to Orlando. Alex or rather Alexis is a Micky Mouse boyfriend who loses his cage fights, craves celebrity and desperately clings to hot Size Queens who have already been thoroughly ‘Blacked’. So why wouldn’t a Cuckoldress make the poor little cuckold parade in front of the cameras wearing a black ‘Ace of Spades’ top and humiliating Mickey Mouse ears. In interracial cuckoldry the Ace of Spades is a calling card for girls who fuck big black men even though they might be with a whiteboi. So, it certainly looks like little Alexis is becoming a world class cuck. Good boy!
I was doing a Google search about adult sex toy parties and your site came up because of your very interesting story you posted on your Cuckoldress blog where the cuckold husband was cuckolded by a huge sex toy. Like Orianna, the sex party hostess in the blog post, I have sex toy parties and it’s quite lucrative. I call myself the Sex Toy Party Cuckoldress. But more importantly than the money I make, I feel like I’m giving women tools they need to get the sexual pleasure they deserve especially if they have wimpy hubbies who are underhung or who are lame in bed. I encourage them to cuckold their husbands, and if they aren’t going to cuckold their hubbies by sleeping with a well-hung man, they can cuck their hubbies with a big vibrator or dildo.
I also want to share with your blog readers that the most popular sex toys I sell at the sex toy parties besides vibrators and dildos are bondage toys! Couples like experimenting with all the BDSM and bondage items in the popular Bad Kitty Bondage Kits and Bondage Sets and feeling sexually helpless as their partner puts them in cuffs and blindfolds them.
The Sex Toy Party Cuckoldress
I love your site and would welcome your thoughts and constructive advice.
We have ALL noticed the fast-growing trend for the prettiest white girls to attach themselves exclusively to big black men. Who hasnâ€™t?!
That observation was what initially began to impact on me. But my submersion into the interracial cuckold lifestyle is becoming all the more deep because I am, at present, seriously wondering whether my own gorgeous fiancÃ©e is as curious about being with a well endowed black man as I fear/crave and is on the verge of becoming the Cuckoldress of my dreams/nightmares.
As such, I wanted to document some of the evidence/clues that I have for doubting her exclusivity to my tiny white dick. I had wanted to avoid publishing these details, for fear that it will get back to my girl somehow but I just need your expert guidance so I am prepared to take that risk.
These accounts are 100% true and accurate, and I would welcome your feedback as to whether I have a black cock loving fiancÃ©e on my handsâ€¦
1. Within 2 months of us dating, she told me that she DIDNâ€™T â€œfind black men attractiveâ€. However, when I pointed out that such a comment might be portrayed as racist, and added that there are lots of handsome black men, she replied, â€œYeah, thatâ€™s true. Some are good looking. I do know that most girls really like black men. Almost all my friends love black menâ€!
2. She told me that her friend has a black boyfriend called Rocky and that apparently he has a HUGE cock. She remarked, â€œthey say that black men have much bigger cocks, donâ€™t they? I wouldnâ€™t know â€™cause Iâ€™ve never been with a black manâ€. When I asked whether my dick was too small for her, she cuddled me and told me not to worry and that mine was â€œok enough for meâ€.
3. When we noticed an interracial couple walking ahead of us, my fiancÃ©e blurted out to me, â€œoooohh, look â€“ that girl likes black men. Sheâ€™s in for a good pounding tonight.â€
4. She has on 3 separate occasions (one immediately following the above remark) stated, â€œcan you imagine if I cheated on you with a black guyâ€¦ that would be the worst thing possible wouldnâ€™t it?â€ and â€œit must be hard for men to handle it when a girl has been with black men beforeâ€.
5. She told me that if she had to pick a celebrity black guy for her â€˜ultimate listâ€™, it would be 50 Cent, because she â€œcouldnâ€™t think of one so I went for the biggest, blackest man I could dream ofâ€.
6. She has twice quoted the phrase â€œonce you go black, you never go backâ€ to me. Whilst it was used to comedy effect, the fact that she knows, and uses that phrase with her fiancÃ©, is a tad brazen.
7. She remarked on the Next catalog male underwear section, because ALL of the models in those pages were black men. She said, â€œtheyâ€™ve chosen black men for the underpantsâ€¦ probably because theyâ€™re known for having big packagesâ€.
8. When I went to pick her up from a work night out, I entered the bar and couldnâ€™t find her. As I journeyed further into the bar, I found her on the dance floor. It was a deserted dance floor, other than my fiancÃ©e and two black men, with whom she was dancing enthusiastically. As she caught sight of me she walked to me as if nothing had happened, but other patrons were looking at me as I led her away from the dance floor, and I could see they were joking about how my girl had been all over the big black men.
9. I was asked by my fiancÃ©e whether Iâ€™d ever seen a black manâ€™s penis. When I replied â€œyesâ€, she asked what they were like. I replied, â€œbigger and blackerâ€. She looked so lustful and just turned away from me, deep in her own thoughts.
10. She reads all the ladies weekly magazines available, and skips through the pages as she does so. But whenever there is an article/picture about a white celebrity dating a black man, she always reads it, often out loud to me.
11. She is always quick to inform me of those celebrities who only date black men. For example, she went on about Girls Aloud singer Nadine Coyleâ€™s relationship with huge NFL star Jason Bell, popular WAGs Helen Flanaghan and Imogen Thomasâ€™ flings with black football players and Cheryl Coleâ€™s reported preference for black men.
12. When a mutual friend was telling us both that her younger sister was â€œgoing off the rails, was only with black guys and has just had a tattoo of a black loverâ€™s name on her shouldersâ€, my fiancÃ©e was fascinated. So much so that she 5 (FIVE) times, within that hour, stressed to me that the younger sisterâ€™s preferred black men were â€œreally blackâ€ and â€œyou know, proper black menâ€.
13. Recently, she told me that she loves R&B and rap, and that she does find black men â€œcoolâ€.
14. One of her best friends recently told her that she had previously slept with a black man. My fiancÃ©e was surprised and told me she didnâ€™t know that her friend had a â€œslutty pastâ€. When I reminded her that lots of white girls sleep with black men nowadays and that Iâ€™m therefore lucky that she still likes white boys, she replied only with, â€œyouâ€™re rightâ€.
15. When we were about to attend one of her family weddings recently, she took the chance to flick through the family members who I would be meeting. Out of the 5 or 6 girls she showed me, she only mentioned the dating habits of oneâ€¦ who just so happened to be â€œreally into black menâ€. I looked at the girl, who was absolutely gorgeous, and asked, â€œwhat, only black?â€. My fiancÃ©e replied, â€œyeah, she just loves black menâ€.
16. We recently read Page 3 of a newspaper featuring a story about glamour girl Sam Cooke dating Man Utdâ€™s black centre back Chris Smalling. My fiancÃ©e stated, â€œall the Page 3 girls go with black men donâ€™t they?â€. I replied that I knew that Amii and Keeley like black men, and expanded by saying, â€œI think most girls with really hot bodies seem to prefer black men nowadaysâ€¦ certainly in Englandâ€. My fiancÃ©e nodded her head.
17. I bought her and her friend tickets to the Usher concert. When I drove them there, she and her mate kept going on about how â€œgorgeousâ€ he is, and how he â€œcould get any girl he wantedâ€. My fiancÃ©e then bought me a pair of panties with â€˜OMGâ€™ emblazened across the ass and a t-shirt with Usherâ€™s naked chest imprinted on the front. She laughed when I put them on, but screamed like never before when I made love to her wearing the t-shirt.
18. When I told her my brotherâ€™s girlfriend is going on holiday with her friends to Ayia Napa, a resort on the island of Cyprus, she replied, â€œthatâ€™s where girls go if they want to be with black menâ€¦ itâ€™s where they go for black cockâ€¦ thatâ€™s well knownâ€.
19. She wants us to go to the Caribbean on holiday.
20. When I bought some JLS (a popular UK black boyband who now promote safe sex) condoms for us, as a joke, she asked, â€œwill they be ok for you, because black men probably need a bigger size donâ€™t theyâ€?
21. After Iâ€™d taken her to see a performance of Romeo & Juliet, in which Romeo was played by a big black guy, she remarked, â€œI didnâ€™t like it, but I admit the two lead parts looked really good togetherâ€.
22. In a conversation with her sister-in-law the other day, she finally conceded that she DOES find black men â€œreally attractiveâ€. But she feels that she has been conditioned not to go for black men by her brother, who would disown her if she ever did. Her sister-in-law duly advised that she herself HAD been with black men. My fiancÃ©e looked stunned, but giggled with her sister-in-law as her brother stormed out of the room like a petulent, humiliated little boy. I then sat by her side, stroking her thigh in silence, as they both discussed all the black men they most fancy.
23. My fiancÃ©e lvoes to watch music videos featuring black music artists, this is almost exclusively the only music videos she watches.
24. My fiancÃ©e had a long chat with me about her best friend, admitting that she seeks big cocks, so much so that she recently told a white boy, who tried to drill her with a small dick, to stop after less than a minute because “she couldn’t even feel him”! When I used the term ‘Size Queen’ to describe her, my fiancÃ©e agreed, explaining that her BFF had indeed become that way, and now the first thing she mentions when recounting a new date is the size of the new man’s penis!
25. We were watching an episode of Little Britain (funny sketch show) in which the blonde lead character is raving about her new black boyfriend and even used the phrase “once you’ve gone black, you never go back”. My fiancÃ©e laughed, and said to me, “she’s like me”!! (She was referring to her joke use of the phrase when she was overheard saying it to me by a foreign waiter last year. So although it wasn’t as brutal as it seemed, it sounded soooooo right!!).
26. When X Factor came on over here, Cheryl Cole has been replaced by the lead singer, Tulissa, of a UK band called N Dubz. Like Cheryl, Tulissa is regarded by those in the know to be ‘black only’. It would seem my fiancÃ©e is one of those in the know. Because when Tulissa came to life when judging the talents of a hot black stud, my girl said “yeah, well Tulissa will love him ‘coz he’s a black guy. She loves black men”. I agreed and subtly pointed out that Kelly Rowland (the other female judge) will no doubt share Tulissa’s praise, and then reminded my fiancÃ©e that her predecessor, Cheryl, was also partial to black guys. My fiancÃ©e thought about what I’d just said, and then calmly stated, in such a matter of fact kind of a way, “they all love black men don’t they. Big black men. They all love them”. This time, I just snuggled her submissively as she no doubt thought about the words she’d just spoken.
27. On holiday, when we saw some white youths walking away from an African sunglasses salesman, laughing as though mocking him, I pointed it out and said that I thought that was cruel. My fiancÃ©e replied “they’re probably just jealous. I bet he’s got a massive cock!” I was so shocked I just laughed!!
28. Whilst reading a paper around the pool, there was a feature on Pixie Lott. I asked my fiancÃ©e who Pixie was dating (as I had seen pics of her with some white English guy). My fiancÃ©e responded by saying “she likes black men”. I knew that this wasn’t necessarily true, and that Pixie was currently with a white boy, but I just accepted my girl’s version and replied despondently, ‘they all do. they love black guys don’t they?” My fiancÃ©e didn’t respond to my question, perhaps mistaking it merely as an obvious statement of fact.
29. Over the course of our summer vacation holiday, and since our return, she has essentially cajoled me into offering to become her attentive slave – in a nice way. She has deprived me of sex every night, citing tiredness. But instead she cleverly seized on my comment about really enjoying stroking her body and hair, to such an extent that over the last few nights, after she has told me sex is off the menu, I have actually ASKED if I can stroke her. She of course ‘allows’ me this pleasure and then I lie next to her, naked with my pathetic white dickie all hard and stiff, gently and lovingly caressing her body and stroking her hair until she falls asleep.
30. Last night, she allowed me to stroke her whilst I watched the football on television. I did so for over an hour, until she complained of feeling tired. At that time, I had pulled her pj bottoms over her bottom and had been stroking her naked ass cheeks as well as her back. But when she mentioned being tired, there was still 20 minutes of the game left but I dutifully pulled her pj bottoms back over her gorgeous bum, turned off the television and said “well let’s get you to bed and I’ll stroke you to sleep – if that’s ok?”. My fiancÃ©e, for the first time, uttered the phrase “Good boy” to me. I felt so proud.
31. Whilst in bed, stroking my girl’s hair, she read the newspaper, commenting only on two stories. The first was about Cheryl Cole’s latest alleged romance, again with a black man. Then about Steve Jones’ supposed trysts with Keeley Hazell. My fiancÃ©e’s words, as I stroked her submissively, were “Keeley will be doing this for her career, because she’s like Cheryl. She likes black football players”! I didn’t reply, but I started pathetically and lavishly kissing her shoulders with so much enthusiasm as I stroked her lush hair and feebly pushed my hard little dickie into her thighs, to which my fiancÃ©e simply said “Not tonight, ok.”
I am pretty sure there have been many, many, many other little comments and glances that have led me to wonder whether my gorgeous fiancÃ©e may be truly craving black men and that her becoming a Cuckoldress is the natural order of things. Perhaps she’s been dreaming of making me her cuckold? I just cannot ignore the feeling I have: it seems to me that black men are now the new Alpha male in the western world and that beautiful, young, independent white girls are now lusting after these â€œreal menâ€ like never before.
As such, I feel that I should now take the plunge, risk whatever humiliation comes my way, and support my fiancÃ©e in going black. I will continue to drop little hints that I would understand her taking a black lover and that I am totally and utterly submissive to these real men. In time, I am convinced that a big black stud will be in our bedroom fucking my sweet fiancÃ©e like I could never, ever hope to.
But Cuckoldress, do you agree? Or am I misreading the signs? Your expert advice and guidance would be very much appreciated.