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Recently on Reddit, a husband posted a personal predicament concerning his wife who is a webcam model. His predicament was that his wife wanted to start doing cuckold cam shows. His wife claimed these types of livesex shows are earning cam girls on free chat sites like FreeFunCam.com a lot of tokens. He thought he would play the stud and fuck his wife on webcam while some helpless wimp sat in the corner playing the cuckolded husband. Was he wrong! The wife wanted to cuckold her husband and have a black bull or other well-hung stud fuck her on cam while he suffered in the corner of the bedroom. How truly embarrassing to find out your wife thinks you are sexually inadequate! Plenty of Redditors were willing to offer up advice to this hapless hubby. However, plenty of Redditors wanted to know his wife’s webcam name and what site she broadcasts on. Now that was cuckolding unto itself.

Have you ever been cuckolded on webcam by a cam girl? It’s a hot fantasy to indulge with a cam babe playing your cheating wife or girlfriend who will tease you and tell you all about her sexual exploits with other men while you wank. Fantasy masturbation is perfect when you are streaming cam to cam. When you go C2C, the cam Cuckoldress can humiliate you for having a small cock during a small penis humiliation cam show. The cuckolding experiences are endless when you ask a cam girl if she will cuck you.

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Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife

In the ebook Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife, a submissive bride begins to explore her sexuality and take lovers outside her marriage. The couple is traveling in the south of France and decide to spend time in a post card perfect city. The locale adds to the ambience of the novel. The wife is extremely sexy and alluring. The husband notices that French men are attracted to her. He encourages his wife to indulge desires she hasn’t so far expressed in taking other men to bed as a shared wife. She is a submissive hotwife versus a classic cuckoldress, nevertheless her husband deals with his feelings of jealousy as he watches his stunning wife having sex with other men.

In a previous article here on Cuckoldress.com, the sexual benefits of swinging vs. cuckolding were discussed by a swinging couple. However, in this book, there is a different dynamic. The dynamic is that of a shared wife where the husband has given permission to her to take other lovers, and who then enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching her with other men. In turn, she begins to enjoy the exhibitionism of being with other men sexually to please and arouse her husband. Her husband is not a traditional cuckold, since he isn’t dealing with the classic cuckold humiliation, instead he is infused with even more desire for her. Sexual competition increases the male libido. And while any husband who is setting his wife free of marital bonds will have to deal with jealousies, their marriage becomes more erotically charged. Remember that our largest sexual organ is our brain and that we can experience heightened arousal from visual stimulation such as exhibitionism. The Cuckoldress highly recommends this classy erotica, Sheer Control by Zara Lynne as well as other eBooks in the same series!

Sheer Control Zara Lynne

Cuckoldress Fail?

Cuckold vs. Cuckoldress

There was an intriguing article on Salon.com recently about a cuckold relationship in which the girlfriend felt that she had been used to satisfy her ex-boyfriend’s cuckold fetish. While the idea of being a Cuckoldress and living the lifestyle appealed to her and while she craved having the power, she ended up feeling trapped in the cuckold relationship instead. In her confessional story, this woman felt she had been manipulated by her ex-boyfriend. She divulged that she felt post-relationship remorse over how her ex-boyfriend had put his selfish sexual needs ahead of hers. He topped her from the bottom, as beta males, submissives or cuckolds are sometimes known to do in order to try to get what they want. I doubt she will ever get involved with a cuckold again. Was this a Cuckoldress fail? Not essentially. The sexual freedom to pursue lusty liaisons with well-hung men or Alpha males while being in a relationship with a cuckold simply did not work for her.

Cuckold Fetish

Many men do not start out in their sex life as a cuckold. Somewhere along the way, cuckolds develop these sexual tendencies and then their full-blown fetish follows. Just like any fetish introduced into a relationship, it may not be a “shared” fetish. A cucky cannot expect that his spouse, his girlfriend or any woman he meets will share this fetish with him. Becoming a Cuckoldress usually roots in dominance or desire for sexual freedom and power. While I often discuss with men who call for cuckold phone sex, how to get their wives or girlfriends interested in cuckolding them, there are obviously women who do not want to pursue this whatsoever. There are many reasons why women may not want to indulge in a cuckold relationship. Women may be sexually conservative, feel insecure about their looks, consider cuckolding to be cheating, feel no need to sleep with other men, feel that fantasizing or role playing is enough of a satisfying sexual expression, etc. But there are some women who can be persuaded to go further into cuckoldry. I don’t want to divulge my secrets here on how to turn your wife or girlfriend into a Cuckoldress. But one hint is that you have to let her think it’s her idea, not yours. Call me live on Niteflirt for more.

Financial Domination is Cuckolding

Recently, an intriguing article in the New York Observer focused on the fascination with one of the most misunderstood fetishes on the planet, financial domination. Most mainstream media articles shock and mislead readers about findom. Some articles tout the pursuit as bossy, talentless girls looking for easy money. Other articles position greedy financial dominatrices plying their trade by swindling, blackmailing, extorting, etc. Finally, the Observer article titled “Hardcore Money Managers” got it right in an explicit sense. However, what was implicit in the article is that financial domination is a form of cuckolding. Below is a quote from the article where a finsub explains the evolutionary relationship dynamic between Money Domme and money slave:

Findom Cuckolding

The relationship of finsub to Financial Domme is essentially cuckold to Cuckoldress. A finsub is a cuckold who recognizes that a Financial Domme is an Alpha Female Cuckoldress. A Cuckoldress finesses beta males to bestow her with cash and gifts. This behavior is what beta males have done in deference to an Alpha Female throughout evolution. The Findom Cuckoldress uses the gifts (examples: clothing, jewelry, heels, vacations) purchased by finsubs to attract or excite her Alpha Male lovers. She can spend the cash to feather her nest or to lure Alpha Males to her bed. All the elements of cuckolding are in play. The Alpha Female reinforces her Alpha Cuckoldress status while enforcing the role of the beta males as cuckolds. Cuckolds are expressly not for mating, they are expected to be providers and to improve the quality of life of superior females. It’s all based on tenets of evolutionary biology. The strongest and most desirable females focus on mating with the strongest and most desirable males. When cuckolds perform their duties, they support the perpetuation of the species at a primal level.

Read the New York Observer financial domination article here

Cuckolding vs Cheating

cuckoldingThe Cuckoldress has more a few admirers who confessed they divorced their first wives or broke up with girlfriends because they thought what their wives or ex-girlfriends were doing was cheating. On retrospect, these men who thought they’d been cheated on began to get excited about the cheating relationships they’d been in. They realized their excitement was rooted in humiliation. They’d been sexually rejected, they were inadequate in bed or they were too small so their spouse or girlfriend sought hotter sex from other men. Some of the “cheating” involved interracial sex. Then these men realized cheating was no longer cheating, it was cuckolding.

That these men were not in control of their wives’ or girlfriends’ sex lives excited them, that the women were Cuckoldresses who held the sexual power in the relationship, was intoxicating to them. The action of cheating somehow mutated into the fetish of cuckolding. These “cheated on” cuckolds advised The Cuckoldress that cheating may have mutated into cuckolding because cuckolding had become popularized on the internet. Can the internet be blamed? No. Evidence of cuckolding has been around for centuries, and biologically speaking has existed since the beginning of human sexual relationships. Women may have pursued mating with whom they perceived to be more of an Alpha male than their current mate without intention of leaving their mate. Cuckolding is and always will be a biological imperative.

What has changed about cuckolding over the centuries? Historically, cuckolding was more of a male sexual power play and humiliation by the dominant male over the cuckolded male. Now, cuckolding is perceived to be a female-centric sexual option. And the male cuckold, while humiliated and powerless, is sexually turned on by his hotwife or girlfriend cuckolding him. Cuckolding has been completely fetishized and is a very firm sexual statement vs. the former subjective perception of cheating.

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