What Type of Cuckold Are You?

There are many different types of cuckolds. Being a cuckold isn’t one-size-fits-all typecasting. Here are the major types of cuckolds with brief definitions:

1. Traditional Voyeur – a voyeur cuckold enjoys seeing his wife or girlfriend experiencing sex with another man in a cuckolding scenario

2. Audio Voyeur – an audio voyeur cuckold enjoys hearing his wife or girlfriend experiencing sex with another man -or- he wants to hear the stories recapping the sexual scenarios to excite him. He does not want to see the sex scene as it may be too intense and humiliating for him to experience in person

3. Humiliation – a humiliation cuckold wishes to experience deep humiliation and sexual rejection. The act of cuckolding may be strong enough humiliation unto itself -or- verbal humiliation may also be desirable. Humiliation elicits deep brain chemical responses that result in sexual arousal and orgasm enhancement

4. Bisexual / Gay – the bi/gay cuckold wishes to experience being with another man’s cock under orders from a Cuckoldress to fluff him or to even please the bull’s cock on an ongoing basis. This type of cuck is often in denial over his bisexuality or homosexuality, though sometimes will grow to embrace it

5. Small Penis – the small penis cuckold realizes he can’t please his partner sexually and needs another man to take care of this. Small penis cucks often enjoy humiliation

6. Performance – a performance cuckold has sexual performance issues, typically performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. This type of cucky does not have to have a small penis. They may enjoy humiliation re: their predicament

7. Sissy – the sissy cuckold enjoys, at the least, wearing panties and may be a full-fledged crossdresser or crossdressing sissy. This cucked type doesn’t feel like a real man and would rather see or have a real man take care of his partner’s sexual needs

8. BBC – a BBC cuckold derives excitement from knowing his partner seeks sex from black bulls

8. Polyamorous/Shared Wife – this type of cuckold allows his wife or girlfriend to have sexual relationships or sexual encounters where she doesn’t necessarily let him watch or hear about the encounters. This cuckold is aroused by his partner’s sexual pursuits and does not necessarily feel humiliation in their partner choosing others for sexual liaisons.

10. Fusion – fusion cuckolds have fused several of the cuckolding types, such as Traditional Voyeur with Small Penis with Humiliation

11. Fantasy – fantasy cuckolds aren’t in a cuckold relationship. They fantasize about being a cucky and masturbate to their fantasies or masturbate to cuckold and interracial videos. They usually know what type of cuckold they are within their fantasies, e.g., BBC / Small Penis

12. Cuck – a cuck is a beta male, trending as an internet pejorative.

Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife

In the ebook Sheer Control by Zara Lynne, a novel about a shared wife, a submissive bride begins to explore her sexuality and take lovers outside her marriage. The couple is traveling in the south of France and decide to spend time in a post card picture perfect city. The locale adds to the ambience of the novel. The wife is extremely sexy. The husband notices that French men are attracted to her. He encourages his wife to indulge desires she hasn’t so far expressed in taking other men to bed as a shared wife. She is a submissive hotwife versus a classic cuckoldress, but her husband must still deal with his feelings of jealousy as he watches his stunning wife having sex with other men.

In a previous article here on Cuckoldress, the sexual benefits of swinging vs. cuckolding were discussed by a swinging couple, but in this book, there is a different dynamic. The sexual dynamic is that of a shared wife where the husband has given permission to a submissive hotwife to take other lovers, and who then enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching her with other men. And, in turn, she begins to enjoy the exhibitionism of being with other men sexually to please and arouse her husband. Her husband is not so much a cuckold, since he isn’t dealing with the classic cuckold humiliation, instead he is infused with even more desire for her. Sexual competition increases the male libido. And while any husband setting his wife free of sexual marital bonds will have to deal with jealousies, their marriage becomes more sexually charged. Remember that our largest sexual organ is our brain, and that we can experience heightened arousal from visual stimulation such as exhibitionism. The Cuckoldress highly recommends this classy erotica, Sheer Control by Zara Lynne as well as other ebooks in the same series!

Sheer Control Zara Lynne

Turned into a Cuckold

Sara…

Here is my embarrassing confession for your blog readers about how I was turned into a cuckold without even realizing. When my wife and I were first dating, it was only a few weeks into our dating relationship when she brought over her big black dildo to play with. Instead of me being a man and saying, get that thing out of here, my cock is enough for you (I have 7 inches), she made me lick her pussy while I fucked her with the BBC toy. She got so wet. I would fuck her after the toy had been inside of her and let me tell you that this sex was like sloppy seconds. She was so wet, my cock would slip out of her especially in certain positions like doggy-style. I should have known I was being cuckolded, but I thought it was just what she liked sexually, that she was a little kinky. Then one night when we were out at a club, she told me how at this very club about a year ago, she had fucked a black guy in the bathroom. While I thought that was kind of sexy and edgy, I didn’t know how edgy until she added that she had gone to the club with her white ex-boyfriend (meaning her boyfriend at the time) and hooked up with the black guy in the bathroom. She said she and her ex went home and fucked, but she had made him lick her pussy first. He had commented that her pussy was very salty and she said it was from dancing at the club, the sweat. He believed her! I thought wow he was so naive. But, I definitely kept my eyes on her all night at the club and watched every move she made!

Cheating vs Cuckolding

Little did I realize that my girlfriend, now my wife, would be cuckolding me, not just with a BBC dildo, but by going out and having sex with black men at her whim. And when I confronted her about cheating on me, she said she wasn’t cheating on me, that I knew she loved big black cocks from the time we first met! Deeper into our argument, I even mentioned the word cuckold and she didn’t even know what it meant! She was doing this to me, out of sexual desire, out of need, without any knowledge of the concept of cuckolding. After that night, I didn’t even want to admit to myself that I was a cuckold. I tried to brush it off thinking that she was just cheating. But then I realized that I was a cuck and that I needed to accept it and if I wanted to keep my beautiful wife, I’d have to let her fuck well-hung black bulls so that she could experience the ultimate sexual satisfaction she craved, that she could not get from me. And so that is where our relationship is now, and descending deeper into cuckoldry as I now eagerly lick out creampies after she returns home after fucking one of her BBC bulls.